Friday, January 8, 2016

Focus for Each Week of 2016

This is what I will be working with for the year of 2016.
I keep a copy in my car and glance at it when I commence a journey.
I remind myself occasionally when I stop at a red robot.

“Purity is possible through the grace of Christ as we deny ungodliness and choose to love God…” (Carol McConkie)

1/1          The past, your past, is behind you.  Think about your past.  Learn from it.
8/1          The future, your future, is before you.  Imagine you in your future.  Prepare for it.
15/1       The present, your present, is here, right now.  Live it purposely and courageously!
22/1       Learn to accept praise.  Smile and say “Thank you.”  No need for any more than those two words…
29/1       Recognise the worthy and worthwhile about yourself and others. Seek for it.
5/2          Stop.  Don’t ‘awfulize,’ ‘horribilize,’ ‘catastrophise.’  Be increasingly realistically optimistic.
12/2       There is at least one saintly person in your life. Name him/her/them. Enjoy their ‘love and light.’
19/2       There is at least one person you know who builds others up.  Identify them. Become like them. 
26/2       Cherish those who love you, are patient with you, and believe in you.
4/3          Grow.  What new knowledge can you discover and embrace today?
11/3       Always follow an unsuccessful experience with a successful one as soon as possible.
18/3       Do something every day that you know you do well: clear a drawer, write, sing, sweep.
25/3       Share time and resources you can afford with someone who needs those.
1/4           Come… Behold…  Adore Him.  Jesus is the light which… shines… in… darkness. 
8/4          Receive graciously.  Let others give time or resources they can afford to you.
15/4       Believe in something positive.  Write it down.  Display it where you can see it every day.
22/4       “There is a God.  I have an interest in Him.  He has an interest in me.”
29/4       Trust those around you in ways they prove trustworthy.
6/5          Be generous.  Give of yourself providing it isn’t harmfully stressful for you to do so.
13/5       Acknowledge and celebrate the right of each person to be different from you.   
20/5       Be peaceful.  Meditate.  The only reality (for today) is now.
27/5       Fill a glass half full and display it.  Notice ways in which your life is half or more full.
3/6          Move on.  Don’t blame yourself or feel guilty for making mistakes in complex situations.
10/6       Become a person of action rather than reaction.  Succeed at least once each day.
17/6       Decide.  What are some objectives important to you?  Make progress in them.
24/6       Be more consistent.  Resist being problem-creatingly rigid.  Resist being too flexible.
1/7          Take time for wholesome myth, ritual, tradition and worship.
8/7          Take a walk around the block, and in the woods or a park, or calendar when you will.
15/7       Make time to relax every day.  Take five minutes in an hour or an hour in a day – or both!
22/7       Visit a museum, historical site or gallery, or plan when you will.
29/7       Spend some time with little children, or with tame or wild animals.
5/8          Read wise words or a good book this week, or at least a part of one every day.
12/8       Listen to, sing, or make some fine music every day.
19/8       Leave some details to someone else, especially when you feel sick, sad, afraid or busy.
26/8       Move through your days thankfully.  Relish and cherish the gift of every, every day.
2/9          Move more.  Exercise, walk or dance every day. (Rest more if you are doing too much.)
9/9          Enjoy some sunshine every day.  Feel its warmth.  Savour its brilliance and significance.
16/9       Live in dignity with unfinished tasks and loose ends.  Only a corpse is completely finished.
23/9       Leave enough time between activities.  Allow for lead time and after-burn.
30/9       Allow time in your schedule for the unexpected.  Have some plans for the surprises of life.
7/10       Schedule fewer tasks each day.  Schedule more activities if you are doing too little. 
14/10     Reasonably expect yourself to finish most of your work without undue pressure.
21/10     Leave early enough for appointments so you do not need to rush to get where you are going.
28/10     Rise earlier in the morning if you need to.  Go to bed earlier if you are a procrastinating night owl.
4/11       Practice saying “No.” and “Yes” plainly.  Leave out the ‘No but…’ or ‘Yes but…’
11/11     Fear not.  Be of good cheer.
18/11     If something threatens to cut into your planned leisure time, say a firm, fair and friendly “no.”
25/11     Know YOUR values.  Write down your top five.  Memorise them.
2/12       Know YOUR priorities.  What are they each day?  Work to accomplish at least one.
9/12       Know YOUR limits.  What can you not do?  What will you not do?  Live within your bounds.
16/12     Practice slowing or quickening your pace of eating, walking and talking as you need to.
23/12     Breathe more slowly, deeply, gratefully and conscious of the gifts of Christ to you..           

30/12     Take personal responsibility for how you live each unique and irreplaceable day of your life.

Thursday, January 7, 2016

A Few of our Heat-Wave Days

 The lovely Amarylis gives delight every day.


 I was looking at old photos... 
this is 1992.
Can you believe it Cindybabe!


 And this was the 5 of us in 1985.
Little did any of us know what lay ahead of us in the next 30 years...




A (hot) walk in the Botanical garden...
The coolness of the water and the shade of the trees was most welcome...











A family of guineafowl unphased by my proximity.


 Even more blooms opening up.


 The cupboards are up in the bathroom.


 The two fans are thankfully doing constant duty.
Today's top temperature is 38C.



This morning Glenn and Les finished the remainder of the tiling
around the new bathroom cupboards.
Now the grouting...


Wednesday, January 6, 2016

Necessity is the Mother

Another heat wave... today is forecast to be 37C - HOT!

I suggested to Glenn that since he has many pairs of overalls one pair should be cut short to knee and elbow length.  He agreed.  I got out my scissors and sewing machine yesterday.  Today is the day he sees if it helps!

Sunday, January 3, 2016

Review of 2015

1.       What did you do in 2015 that you'd never done before?
Fell down the stairs and broke my wrist and needed plastic surgery on my forehead.

2. Did you keep your new year's resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I can’t remember…
Yes I will make resolutions (goals…) I always do.  And I will write them this year and put them where I can remind myself of them through the year.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
Yes, my granddaughter Cheryn Guest – a girl – Emily;
my niece Cindy Powrie Wentzel – a girl - Scarlett

4. Did anyone close to you die?
No…

5. What countries did you visit?
United Arab Emirates – passing through on the way to and from England
England – Surrey, Somerset, Isle of Wight
South Africa - KZN

6. What would you like to have in 2016 that you lacked in 2015?
More consistent clarity of mind.

7. What date from 2015 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
I can’t think of a particular one.

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
My body recovering from my fall down the stairs.
Making it through the year.

9. What was your biggest failure?
I don’t think much in terms of failure… my life events and circumstances give me experience.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Injury - falling down the stairs.

11. What was the best thing you bought?
Plane tickets to England.
My replacement laptop computer.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
Everybody I know, myself included – most of the time.

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
Everybody I know, myself included – some of the time.

14. Where did most of your big-spend money go?
Patio project.
Plane tickets to England.

15. What did you get really excited about?
The births this year – Emily and Scarlett. 
And their Mom’s managing it!

16. What song(s) will always remind you of 2015?
Nothing particular comes to mind…

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
a) happier or sadder? Both happier and sadder in different ways
b) thinner or fatter? Thinner - in my WeightWatchers goal range
c) richer or poorer?  Richer in some ways and poorer in some other ways

18. What do you wish you'd done more of?
Reading?

19. What do you wish you'd done less of?
Explaining?

20. How did you spend Christmas?
With Douglas, Nadia and family and extended family and friends.

21. Where did you begin the year; and where did you end it?
At home, at home – home sweet home.

22. Did you fall in love in 2015?
More in love with, and appreciative of, my husband.

23. What was your favorite TV program?
Dr Phil, Dr Oz, Nature programmes, Voetspore, Amazing Race, Survivor.

24. What was the best book you read?
I can’t remember.  I only read good books and magazines, so all of them?

25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
Nothing comes to mind…

26. What did you want and get in 2015?
A visit with my daughters and their families.

27. What did you want and not get?
The patio project finished… it is nearing completion.

28. What was your favorite film of this year?
Nothing comes to my mind.

29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I don’t remember – I’m sure we marked the occasion… 
I am 70 and excited to be 70!

30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Nothing in particular.  My life is real and satisfying in all it's experiences.

31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2015?
"Appropriate" for the weather and the occasion.
I love plenty of black with pops of colour.

32. What kept you sane?
My daily and weekly routines.
Reading every day.
Being myself.

33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Mmusi Maimani – I am hopeful for some increasingly thoughtful  and effective opposition in government.

34. What political issue stirred you the most?
The replacement of our finance minister, then the replacement of the new one after 4 days!

35. Who did you miss?
My family overseas.
My family in Cape Town.

36. Who was the most interesting new person you met?
Dianne’s friend, Hayley Dodd.  Angela’s friend, Viv, I think her name is.

37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2015:
Again… “Outward appearances can be very deceiving.”

38. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year:
“God is so good,
God is so good,

God is so good, He’s so good to me.”

Saturday, January 2, 2016

Herbert Family, Scarlett, Patio Project

Hannah, the middle child.


Joshua, the eldest.


Caleb the youngest.


Shelly.


 Andrew.


 Patrick's birthday candle. 
Happy Birthday Patrick!


Jesus' birthday candle - six days of 12 hours later!


Vi wanted 'to get some flowers' for me.
I chose this amarylis.
I have loved watching it open!


 A bit here and a bit there the patio project continues.
Bathroom ceiling preparation.



 

A little more open...


More ceiling fitted...


And Scarlett came to visit!


Thrilled Mom!  
We are happy to have her home!



New Year's morning we went to Rusty Hook for breakfast.



Dianne's birthday candle dripped wax in an unusual way!
Happy Birthday Dianne!


More gorgeous blooms!


And even more the next day!


The ceiling basics finished and ready for filling.


The shower door getting ready to go in with Doug's help.



Aren't the flowers gorgeous!


And installing the doors...


Finished for today...


Saturday, December 26, 2015

Christmas Day 2015 Late Afternoon

Amy, Chloe and Jasmin (Daena's cousins Nadia's sister's 
and Nadia's brother's children) and Daena.


Ethan is always so good with the little ones.
He is with Jessie (Colleen's son).


Nadia's brother, Lowell, and fourth child. 


Nadia's sister, Kayla, and Gran, Marian, and Mom Erene.


Two of the about ten or twelve missionaries who joined us late in the afternoon.


We were back all together at about five thirty for dessert.
Les, Doug, Jarom, Colleen, Richard, Andrew.


Jarom, Andrew, Richard.


Colleen, Rohan.


Richard, Dom's Dad Lawrence,  and the others you know now.


Gorgeous cloudy late afternoon.




Baby Kelly taking a nap.  So sweet!


Missionaries playing pool and later table tennis.


Desserts table.



Early evening swimmers.


The birthday candle after burning for twelve hours.



And at about ten thirty Dom and Cindy's baby girl was born...

This morning I heard more of the details
from Sally (Doctor and Cindy's Mom) of Scarlett's long delivery.
I felt concerned.

This afternoon Ron and Pamela (Midwife) visited.
Pamela went straight from arriving at the airport to the Birthing Facility
and has given even more perspective.

Dom and Cindy have just visited too.
Scarlett is still in high care,
it seems they expect her to come home tomorrow or the day after.

I look forward to meeting her.
What a special privilege to be around a newborn.